Vaginismus Unconsummated Sex
Vaginismus Unconsummated Marriage
NEWLY WED: NO SEX
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Sexologist Dr. Ashok Koparday डॅाक्टर अशोक कोपर्डे Last updated February 01, 2017
Unable to penetrate the first time
HOW TO INSERT PENIS IN VAGINA?
Just as a train will not be able to enter a tunnel so too penis is not able to enter vagina. Reason for the train could be huge boulder at the mouth of the tunnel. Reason for newly wed couple is vaginismus.
Train can’t go in the tunnel if the opening is blocked by boulders of rock. Similarly penis cannot enter vagina due to vaginismus.
The sex problem of Newly Wed couple unconsummated sex may be due to vaginismus.
Unconsummated marriage is not uncommon. The male (wrongly) believes that he has ED Erectile Dysfunction and/or PE Premature Ejaculation.
When the doctors, specialists both Urologist and Gynecologist, with the armament of investigations and their medicines fail the boy is crest fallen. The marriage and the relationship is cruelly damaged
Relationship disharmony leading to bitter discord complicates resulting in divorce. The newly wed boy’s ego is badly hurt because he is labeled impotent.
The main complaint wife has is, her husband promises he will go for treatment, but keeps postponing. This delay in approaching doctor can be 3 days to 6 years.
WHY AN EXPERIENCED SEXOLOGIST SHOULD BE CONSULTED?
It is difficult to get resolved on it’s own. “As time passes we will be able to do it (Sexual intercourse = Insertion of penis in vagina),” is false hope.
Counseling skills, long hours, patience and thorough knowledge with experience is required. Otherwise the boy may be labeled impotent. Two nice people and two decent families who have spent lakhs of Rupees $ in wedding ceremony confront nightmare and relationship can get wrecked leading to divorce.
Treatment by an experienced Sexologist (not Urologist) is the best way to resolve.
Urologist, Gynecologist, Family Physician, Psychiatrist despite their well meaning treatment can actually cause more damage.
It goes without saying that quacks can vitiate matters making recovery difficult, if not impossible.
HOW DOCTORS COMPLICATE AND WORSEN?
Why not to take treatment from urologist or gynecologist?
There are definite reasons.
Psycho-Sexual Therapeutic Counseling is time consuming and necessary. Viagra and/or saying “don’t worry” or pep talk is unlikely to work. Such treatment given by Family Physician, Urosurgeon and Gynecologist, though undoubtedly given with good intentions is potentially risky.
When such approaches fail the boy is tremendously de motivated.
Mismanagement makes matters worse.
Last updated on: February 01, 2017
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